Online love advice guide is launched to help Royal Navy families mend their broken relationships

NAVAL families struggling with military life and relationship woes are to be offered free counselling advice under a new initiative.

Wednesday, 13th February 2019, 1:44 pm
Updated Monday, 18th February 2019, 10:11 am
The new system will help naval families struggling with their relationships. Photo posed by models.

The Royal Navy and Royal Marines Charity (RNRMC) has teamed up with relationships charity, Relate, to support serving families on the cusp of collapse.

The team has launched a new counselling portal online that can help families to mend their bonds before they split.

Both serving and former personnel from within the naval service can sign up to the scheme, giving them access to seven modules covering everything from parenthood, military life and sexual communication to intimacy and family life.

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The news comes after the head of the Naval Families Federation told a committee of MPs she was seeing more and more families ‘breaking down’ because they were unable to spend enough time together.

Adrian Bell, chief executive of the RNRMC said the Portsmouth-based charity already offered free phone, face-to-face and online counselling services to naval families.

But speaking of the new link, Mr Bell said: ‘The RNRMC is delighted to launch the Building Stronger Families online learning portal. This website will provide discreet and easily-accessible advice to help families overcome the challenges associated with service life.

‘We value our ongoing relationship with Relate to provide first-rate counselling services to serving and former personnel and their families.

‘The portal will be a fantastic tool that we hope naval families will make use of.’

Ben Collins, director of services at Relate, said the organisation had been working with the RNRMC for three years to provide support to naval families.

‘During this time our counsellors have helped countless couples and families to build stronger relationships or help resolve things when they have gone wrong, leading to improvements in wellbeing and communication,’ he said, adding: ‘Healthy relationships are so important in all our daily lives, which is why we’re delighted to be launching this new online platform with RNRMC.’

As previously reported, Anna Wright, chief executive of the Portsmouth-based Naval Families Federation, said she was concerned by the number of ‘dispersed’ families in the Senior Service.

Speaking to the government’s defence committee on Tuesday, Mrs Wright said more than a third (36 per cent) of families lived away from the bases where their loved ones were stationed.

She warned families were not being given enough time to spend together, which was putting a strain on relationships.

‘At the moment I’m just meeting so many people whose relationships have broken down because they just never see their partner,’ she said. ‘There’s very little support for families in the community.’

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