Covid-19 has left me with fatigue and my GP won’t help | Agony Aunt

Question: Five months ago, I had what is now assumed to have been Covid-19. After a few days, I thought I was better, but I was so very tired.

I tried to see my doctor but he said I was probably depressed. He prescribed anti-depressants, but they made me even more exhausted. I got weird aches and pains; my hair started to fall out; some days I’d be running a temperature.

I feel like I’m going crazy! I’ve heard of other people who still feel ill after they’ve had this virus, so why aren’t doctors picking up on it and doing something?

Answer: It sounds like you could be one of several people experiencing what is now being referred to as ‘Long Covid’. If your doctor is unwilling to listen, ask for another opinion. You are not obliged to keep seeing the same GP.

You are not going crazy and you are certainly not alone. Talking to a counsellor could still be very beneficial and help you develop strategies to manage this tricky chapter.

I WANT TO LEAVE MY BOYFRIEND FOR A NEW MAN

Question: My boyfriend and I have been going out for about three years and I’d assumed that one day we’d get married. However, I’ve now met someone new who has made me question whether this relationship is what I really want, as this new guy is considerate, gentle and great fun to be around.

My boyfriend has quite a temper and often puts me down in front of other people.

My problem is, how do I handle telling my boyfriend, as I’m worried how he will react.

Answer: Delaying telling him won’t help but how you tell him is important. If he pushes for an explanation, tell him that you’ve realised you are not in love with him, and that you believe that’s what is needed for a good relationship.

If you’re really worried as to how he’ll react then I suggest you select a public place, with plenty of people around when you tell him.

There is no reason why you should mention the other man – it’s not as if you’re started a new relationship with him.